There are two places you can tune your own notification options:
1. User CP > Edit Options > Use 'Email Notification' by default?
2. When posting, the options below the text field.
I hope this helps
Disclaimer: Please use caution when opening messages, my grasp on reality may have shaken loose during transmission (going on rusty memory circuits), even though my tin foil hat is regularly audited for potential supply chain tampering. I also eat whatever crayons are put in front of me.
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