I'll send my friend a reply, and when they respond to my reply the taskbar button will flash again as it would in any other Windows OS. However, the taskbar (on auto-hide) will crawl back up again. I'll send my reply, and again when they respond, the taskbar crawls back up to show me the flashing application button.
Now I've looked everywhere in AIM - and being very fluent with it I'm unable to find an option available to prevent the flashing-button from happening.
Can anybody tell me if WindowsXP has an option or setting I can change to prevent the taskbar from crawling back up on me like that? I hate when things keep sneaking up on me.

Thanks!