Sick of it

wee96 · Post by **wee96** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 9:36 am

Im tired of trying to get a woman, utterly tired of it.

aagiants · Post by **aagiants** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 9:38 am

every guy is, but its sumthin all men have to do

YARDofSTUF · Post by **YARDofSTUF** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 9:41 am

get a good job and u can buy them

MadDoctor · Post by **MadDoctor** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 10:24 am

YARDofSTUF: get a good job and u can buy them

Teirney · Post by **Teirney** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 11:51 am

Originally posted by YARDofSTUF
get a good job and u can buy them

Money doesn`t buy real happiness or love from a real woman..

Immortal · Post by **Immortal** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 11:56 am

but it'll buy u happiness.... yes it will!

whoever say money can't buy u happiness must be rich...

well I'm poor and I'd like to be rich and see!!

Prey521 · Post by **Prey521** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 11:59 am

Hey Wee, don't get discouraged man, women come a dime a dozen, there's plenty of them. The problem is finding one that's compatible with you. If one rejects/ignores you, screw it, you don't need her. Women are the most complicated creatures on the face of this earth, the hard part is finding the one that is the least complicated. My woman is a part of the most complicated bunch, hopefully you'll get luckier than me

Seriously Wee, keep hope alive and don't lose faith, just take that reel and fling it back in the lake, some lucky trout is sure to bite

TRILL · Post by **TRILL** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 12:22 pm

Originally posted by Prey521
The problem is finding one that's compatible with you.

I find that most are self-adjusting.

EvilAngel · Post by **EvilAngel** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 12:28 pm

Originally posted by wee96
Im tired of trying to get a woman, utterly tired of it.

Go hit a gay bar then and see if you feel the same way after.

Chris · Post by **Chris** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 12:35 pm

Originally posted by EvilAngel

Go hit a gay bar then and see if you feel the same way after.

***ROFLMAO***

mouse · Post by **mouse** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 1:03 pm

Hang in there Wee, there is a woman out there right this minute feeling the same way and she is looking for you....

mikemean · Post by **mikemean** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 1:12 pm

Originally posted by EvilAngel

Go hit a gay bar then and see if you feel the same way after.

I can't believe you said that!

Immortal · Post by **Immortal** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 1:14 pm

we have a gay street or soemthing in downtown.. or something.. I forget..

well anyways.. if a bar or a shop has a rainbow flag on it.. it means it's a gay bar or something...

might go in and take a look.. hahaha

JawZ · Post by **JawZ** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 2:14 pm

Originally posted by wee96
Im tired of trying to get a woman, utterly tired of it.

Women can sense desperation and it turns them off. Go get drunk with your friends...be cool...and they will come!!!

In other words...quit trying so hard!!!

rrrjr · Post by **rrrjr** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 5:13 pm

Originally posted by teirney

Money doesn`t buy real happiness or love from a real woman..

i am learning this now.

very true.

jr.

gmcd33 · Post by **gmcd33** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 5:19 pm

I accidentally went to a gay bar. This old club went out of business and was replaced with a new bar. We arrive and see 2 lesbians making out in a car. We were like WOAH!!!! Lesbians!!!

Anyway, we walkin and see these 2 gay guys at the bar holding hands and havin a beer. Then we look at the dance floor and MAN could these guys dance.

We order a beer or two and then it hit us like a ton of bricks-we were in a gay bar. Then we left only to be disapointed that the lesbians were no longer making out in the parked car.

wee96 · Post by **wee96** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 9:36 pm

I get in trouble when I drink, as in get in fights. Anyway Im just annoyed because I really like this girl I just met, and she was reallky putting out some good signs, but then slipped into the just friends mode. I seem to get ALOT of women who look at me and like what they see, but they dont wanna do anything about it, if that makes sense. Im just tired of even trying, I'm gonna slip back into my evil mode...

EvilAngel · Post by **EvilAngel** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 9:44 pm

Originally posted by wee96
I get in trouble when I drink, as in get in fights. Anyway Im just annoyed because I really like this girl I just met, and she was reallky putting out some good signs, but then slipped into the just friends mode. I seem to get ALOT of women who look at me and like what they see, but they dont wanna do anything about it, if that makes sense. Im just tired of even trying, I'm gonna slip back into my evil mode...

DUDE! you have to act like you don't give a rattsass and don't expect any type of relationship and just have fun with them while you can.. love and friendship, unfortunatly, donot happen at the same time.. be their friend and let the love seep in..

EvilAngel · Post by **EvilAngel** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 9:45 pm

oh, if she wants to be your friend hell go for it and play the feild and have fun!!! she'll she that you have the confidence and find that even more appealing.

sito · Post by **sito** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 10:29 pm

One reason why I'm single is that I won't "act" like I'm this or that. I find as I get older, I become that much more complex myself. I'm quickly getting sick of the dating game. Don't change just because your alone. You'll regret that just as much as being alone in the first place. Be happy with yourself regardless, and they will come. Problem is, there's too much game in relationships now. As soon as I can smell an actress, I toss 'em. I'm searching for my soul mate at this stage in life. I still tinker with my X whom I've known for over a decade now. I often wonder if she's the one, but probably not. I'll definately know the women I want when I see her.

Juggernaut · Post by **Juggernaut** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 10:39 pm

Money may not buy happiness but it sure doesn't hurt.

If you think it doesn't, get rich and live like that for a little bit and then give EVERYTHING away and go live on the streets, eating scraps of food here and there.

Then see which way you were more "happy"

fanta · Post by **fanta** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 10:40 pm

Hey Wee, maybe you need to read Doc Love's book...

http://www.askmen.com/dating/the_system/index.html

Haven't read it myself but it looks pretty interesting.

Who knows though... *shrugs*

David · Post by **David** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 11:13 pm

Wee,

I felt a real need to chat with you on this one... and in a public forum. Please correct me if I am wrong

There is a song by Henry Rollins call "Liar". One of the premises is that he relates to those he wishes to seduce. In a sense, he is becoming something he is not.
In the mating dance, men and women alike lie to each other. Assuming a facade to garner the interest in the desired target. Be in love with the person, not their creation. In a sense, you cannot love a painting, sculpture or poem like you can another person.
Find who you are and what it is that makes you happy. When you are happy and serene, the energy of your spirit will be irresistable. It will happen my friend

Yours sincerely
david

RoundEye · Post by **RoundEye** » Sun Aug 12, 2001 11:25 pm

I think Hell_Yes is right on the money. I quit hunting and decided to just be happy with myself. Not soon after that came my wife. After years of hunting for the right person, I got blind-sided when I wasn't even looking.

Hell_yes,
enjoyed your visit, y'all come back now, ya hear?

EvilAngel · Post by **EvilAngel** » Mon Aug 13, 2001 12:33 am

Originally posted by sitosterol
. Don't change just because your alone. You'll regret that just as much as being alone in the first place. .

Good point, and if you live your life that way you'd be pretty damn miserable. Very easy to create a very destructive patten if you live for others happiness and not your own!

I fell into that rut a few times!

Hell_Yes that is DEAD on the money!

sito · Post by **sito** » Mon Aug 13, 2001 12:41 am

Originally posted by EvilAngel

Good point, and if you live your life that way you'd be pretty damn miserable. Very easy to create a very destructive patten if you live for others happiness and not your own!

I fell into that rut a few times!

Hell_Yes that is DEAD on the money!

U'll wake up one day and resent your better half even though it won't neccesarily be there fault. No longevity there. I'll only get married once and it'll be forever hopefully. Tis' why I sit and wait patiently.

EA, how ya doin bro?!

terrancelam · Post by **terrancelam** » Mon Aug 13, 2001 1:04 am

Chicks are ever changing, never the same. If you find one who feels the same way about you and still does the next month, consider yourself lucky and hope that you might be togather long enough to get married.

In today's fast pace society, alot of chicks are out there for experience, not for the long run of things and they too like to test the waters. But even then, they base EVERYTHING about a guy on looks, which in my books are important, but not everything. So you have to just keep looking buddy, I find that just get depressed sometimes when I think about it, but after awhile, things don't seem so bad and I build up the strength to try again.

sito · Post by **sito** » Mon Aug 13, 2001 1:07 am

and when ya do find that special someone, never, I repeat, never take them for granted. As most know, ya don't know what ya got till it's gone. I made that mistake ONCE. Still feel the consiquence to this day. *sigh*

rrrjr · Post by **rrrjr** » Mon Aug 13, 2001 1:39 am

Originally posted by sitosterol
and when ya do find that special someone, never, I repeat, never take them for granted. As most know, ya don't know what ya got till it's gone. I made that mistake ONCE. Still feel the consiquence to this day. *sigh*

bingo !!! so true !

jr

David · Post by **David** » Mon Aug 13, 2001 6:46 am

Originally posted by sitosterol
and when ya do find that special someone, never, I repeat, never take them for granted. As most know, ya don't know what ya got till it's gone. I made that mistake ONCE. Still feel the consiquence to this day. *sigh*

It is an unfortunate but typically natural progression. We all are guilty of taking things for granted. Whether it is a person you love, fresh water, a place to sleep or having money for food. Usually both sides are somewhat guilty. I believe Wee way too intense to let that readily happen.

One thing I learned from my brother, often timing is key in finding love. Sometimes you simply are not ready for it or they are not ready for you. It is why I suggest you work from within first.
For him, it happened when he finally found some level of peace within himself.

gb dao

Venus · Post by **Venus** » Thu Aug 16, 2001 5:45 pm

Originally posted by Hell_Yes
Wee,

I felt a real need to chat with you on this one... and in a public forum. Please correct me if I am wrong

There is a song by Henry Rollins call "Liar". One of the premises is that he relates to those he wishes to seduce. In a sense, he is becoming something he is not.
In the mating dance, men and women alike lie to each other. Assuming a facade to garner the interest in the desired target. Be in love with the person, not their creation. In a sense, you cannot love a painting, sculpture or poem like you can another person.
Find who you are and what it is that makes you happy. When you are happy and serene, the energy of your spirit will be irresistable. It will happen my friend

Yours sincerely
david

thats not true lies breed doubt which leads to uncertainty which then breaks trust.

CiscoKid · Post by **CiscoKid** » Thu Aug 16, 2001 6:32 pm

Originally posted by wee96
Im tired of trying to get a woman, utterly tired of it.

Consider yourself lucky!!!!

I have 5 or 6 female freinds and all of them have fallen for me at one time or another...it sucks though...the minute I'm single, they got guys...

reverse · Post by **reverse** » Thu Aug 16, 2001 6:37 pm

If you are having soo much trouble with women, maybe you should try to expand your horizons with something a little different

The_other_fish_in_the_sea

David · Post by **David** » Thu Aug 16, 2001 7:25 pm

Originally posted by Venus

thats not true lies breed doubt which leads to uncertainty which then breaks trust.

Um...

Please reread.....

You are actually in agreement with me.
The fact is that most us put on airs to make ourselves more desirable. It is wrong. I suggest that one finds peace with yourself first. With your demons exorcised, your serenity would be difficult to resist.

terrancelam · Post by **terrancelam** » Thu Aug 16, 2001 11:23 pm

Originally posted by reverse
If you are having soo much trouble with women, maybe you should try to expand your horizons with something a little different
The_other_fish_in_the_sea

I don't know how on god's green earth you found that link, but let me just say, you are one sick sick individual. Please don't post such ...*shudders* thigns again in the forum. I will report you next time, this is just a warning.

I'm not trying to be judgmental about you having "sex" with dolhpins are anything, but just please keep it to yourself..

Crump · Post by **Crump** » Thu Aug 16, 2001 11:34 pm

Originally posted by wee96
Im tired of trying to get a woman, utterly tired of it.

dude, do not worry about it....THEY SUCK!

reverse · Post by **reverse** » Fri Aug 17, 2001 10:29 am

Originally posted by terrancelam

I don't know how on god's green earth you found that link, but let me just say, you are one sick sick individual. Please don't post such ...*shudders* thigns again in the forum. I will report you next time, this is just a warning.

I'm not trying to be judgmental about you having "sex" with dolhpins are anything, but just please keep it to yourself..

Maxim is great! You get links to all sorts of weird stuff from it.

As far as it being something to report me about, I highly doubt that that link constitutes such action. I have never seen a forum with so many uptight members!

Chris · Post by **Chris** » Fri Aug 17, 2001 11:05 am

Originally posted by Hell_Yes

Um...

Please reread.....

You are actually in agreement with me.
The fact is that most us put on airs to make ourselves more desirable. It is wrong. I suggest that one finds peace with yourself first. With your demons exorcised, your serenity would be difficult to resist.

WB David
Chris

CompGeek83 · Post by **CompGeek83** » Fri Aug 17, 2001 11:51 am

Originally posted by reverse
If you are having soo much trouble with women, maybe you should try to expand your horizons with something a little different
The_other_fish_in_the_sea

ok thats just sick

the "quit looking and they will come" part really seems to be true, ive known this girl forever and for the past 2 years we've been hanging out together a lot at school, as with most girls, im unsure of her true feelings toward me, although she atleast really likes me as a friend. i got really lucky and she is attending the same community college as me, i finally got the courage to ask her out to a movie yesterday, she said yes but with college starting monday she may not be able to go saturday night, the really weird part is that yesterday i was sitting here with the phone in my hands thinking of calling here and the phone rings, its was my mom who happens to work at the same place her mom works and talks to her mom daily, anyway mom told me that i needed to call her house and talk to her dad sometime because his computer is acting up, this seems like fate's way of saying pick up the freaking phone already

Juggernaut · Post by **Juggernaut** » Fri Aug 17, 2001 12:12 pm

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