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All the best to you poptom! Be strong.
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poptom wrote:Colorectal. This kind of pisses me because I'm not used to having anything wrong with me. When the doc told me what it was, I said "OK, let's fix it" and he said " that's just what we're going to do". I like that kind of confidence.

--Tom
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Ya know, I used to like the idea that I could come and go at SG whenever I dam well felt like it. But, I'll be here till you get yer clean bill of health. I don't want to miss the celebration. But, you owe me, cause now I'll have to put up with these SG types till you give us the all clear. :irate:

These guys are hell on the ego of a gorgeous, middle-aged chubby woman. :rotfl:

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:( Tom If you need anything, just ask. Dont worry, you'll have it beat in no time. Before you know, it will be gone!
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Git It Dun, do what has to be done and defeat it ;)

Ill be prayin for ya!


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I can't add any more than what's already been stated in this thread other than the fact that you're in my prayers. Sounds like you've got a good start down the road combating this and we're all here for you if you need us. Get well soon!
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Will keep you in my prayers. Everything will be ok. God Bless.
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We wish you and your family all the best. :)

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Prayers coming your way....best wishes, too! :)
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Today, I had a buddy tell me he's got problems in the same area. I thought of you poptom and told him to get a thorough exam.

He looked at me kinda sideways at first and I explained to him what could happen. He's only 35 so there's probably nothing too bad, wrong with him. My uncle at 40 died of colorectal cancer. I told him early detection is key.

One thing about us guys is we never go get checked out, especially that region. In reality it can make all the difference to survival. I'm 31 and I know I need to go get checked because it's in the bloodline.

I also know you'll beat this poptom. Something tells me that.
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Good luck poptom! I know you'll be fine.. You've got the right attitude and plenty of support.. :thumb:
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Hey poptom


I don't know if you remember november 2003 I was diagnosed with Type B Lymphoma, inoperable but curable through extreme chemo and some mild radiation.

I was 26 at the time about to turn 27.

I am now 28 and I just had my 1 year CT yesterday, I am awaiting the results.

Just do what you have to do and keep focusing on when you get better.

The good news is usually colon cancer can be cured with just removing some of the colon and minor chemo + radiation.

Its hard sometimes but just remember, this is only temporary.


JD


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Thanks,all.

Yes JD, I recall your experience. Hope the CT looks good for you.

I wish these guys would move a bit faster here.

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You have my thoughts and prayers. Those are not just words. I wish you the best.
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Thank you, Miss Gummy, and welcome to Speedguide.

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Sorrry to hear that one of life's challenges has come along and kicked you in the ass Tom.
I have an uncle who is 90 this year and has had this one for some time. The doctors just fix it after each regular checkup.
We expect them here next week travelling on a cruise boat to Darwin from Adelaide where they board a train called "The Ghan" for the trip back to Adelaide. He's never let it beat him and neither should you.

The medical people, prayer and the right attitude (that's the one you have) will have this beat in no time. :thumb:

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Sorry to hear about your situation :(

My grandmother died from it inpart bcz she did not get the check ups. My mother survived it from early detection. Its important that we get thease intrusive checkups and follow docs orders.

I Thought I would post a link to http://www.healthboards.com/boards/foru ... y.php?f=24

^ it can be a good place to get help and help others.

Gl & best wishes, Randy

I was going to post a link to that thread, but the SG search results for "bullsh|t" were too numerous

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1)Pics of the broad on the Harley! (neekked preferrably...) :D

2)How about an update?

3)CT Scan results?

4)Ultrasound?

5)Pregnancy test?

Inquiring minds and all that, you know... :)
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Ken wrote:1)Pics of the broad on the Harley! (neekked preferrably...) :D

2)How about an update?

3)CT Scan results?

4)Ultrasound?

5)Pregnancy test?

Inquiring minds and all that, you know... :)
:nod: Yes please!! minus the first request...giggle!

Love your new avatar Ken!!
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MissTynker2 wrote: :nod: Yes please!! minus the first request...giggle!

Love your new avatar Ken!!

Thanks, on tha av. (Lefty and Joints are responsible)

I am glad to see that you, also, are curious about the results of his pregnancy test! (Item #5!) :D
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Ken wrote:1)Pics of the broad on the Harley! (neekked preferrably...) :D

2)How about an update?

3)CT Scan results?

4)Ultrasound?

5)Pregnancy test?

Inquiring minds and all that, you know... :)
I'll try to get pics but I won't post the nekked ones out of respect for the ladies here. I hope to get her to take a ride with me through the canyons so look for pics of Tom and Ann posed in front of The Rock Store.

CT showed a golf ball size tumor right next to the prostate and it has latched onto a lymph node. It also showed some tiny specks in my lungs but they think that's harmless old scar tissue. They want to run a PET scan to see for sure. That will light up the cancer cells. From what I saw previously when they stuck the camera inside, this thing looks like a small bunch of white grapes.

The ultrasound hasn't been done yet, waiting for insurance approval but they're pretty sure I'm not pregnant.

Saw the oncologist for the first time and he thinks the surgeon should get in there first and cut the thing out and maybe follow up with chemo. These guys will be getting they're heads together to figure the best approach. Great! Now we have a committee. Nobody seems to be in much of a hurry (except me).

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poptom wrote: There is another member of my medical team that I didn't mention before. A lovely young Vietnamese lady in my primary doctor's office. She's the one that started the ball rolling on this.

And she rides a Harley.

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PopTom

We do not know each other, but we will go riding our Harley Soft Tails together in to the sunset. Getting, us a few soft tail LBG's to ride our bikes.

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BaghDaddy wrote:PopTom

We do not know each other, but we will go riding our Harley Soft Tails together in to the sunset. Getting, us a few soft tail LBG's to ride our bikes.

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It's a deal, Dad, But I have a BMW, an adult motorcycle. :)

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Stay positive!!!

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Hi Poptom!
This is indeed a very stressful time for you...and lymph nodes are often involved with any form of cancer. I pray...this might help you..when I was diagnosed with breast cancer...I also had lymph nodes involved...and the prognosis by some was that I had less then two years to live. I had..and still do...a fighting attitude..as well as a positive one..as I hear from you..fear is of course very natural...and very normal!!..I was diagnosed as a stage 3 cancer...I beat it Baby...You can too!!..And you will with your attitude!!! That was near 19 years ago for me..and I am still here..Angel Blessings!!

Now the fun part?? Giggle!! The treatments increased the size!! Enjoy!!
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poptom wrote:It's a deal, Dad, But I have a BMW, an adult motorcycle. :)

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Hi poptom

A Low Blow... :D

Good to see You feeling better Tom :rotfl:

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I hope you get better soon PopTom. No one deserves to have Cancer.
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poptom wrote:they're pretty sure I'm not pregnant.

--Tom


Well, that is some welcome good news!

You see, it could always be worse! It could be raining AND you could be pregnant! :D Talk about a bummer! :rotfl:

Keep the positive outlook. It helps more than I can say! ;)

Let us know if we can help out in any way. We are here and will be waiting to hear your updates!
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Baghdaddy and PoppaTom,

Please do not misunderstand or get confused with what I am trying to say, however, we want pics of the LADIES on the bikes, not you 2 guys! :D
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MissTynker2 wrote: The treatments increased the size!! Enjoy!!

:confused: OK, MsTynker, you have my curiosity... Are you insinuating that your treatments increased your penile size? :confused: :eek: :D
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Hang in there man. You will be in my prayers.
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Well, I've had another CT scan, a PET scan, and ultrasound, and I saw my surgeon today. He thinks it would be best to undergo radiation treatment prior to surgery but that will be a committee decision, I expect. Coincidently, he will be attending a cancer conference at UCLA tomorrow and he is going to present my case.

The good news is that it hasn't spread to any other organs and the spots on my lungs are not cancerous.

Oncologist next Wednesday. He's only in the office on Wednesdays.

After all the tests, I expect them now to DO SOMETHING.

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Hi poptom
The good news is that it hasn't spread to any other organs and the spots on my lungs are not cancerous.


Thats Great News Tom. :thumb:

I'm sure you'll be on the fast track now and hopefully all will be well soon.

Good Luck on Wed.

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poptom wrote:Well, I've had another CT scan, a PET scan, and ultrasound, and I saw my surgeon today. He thinks it would be best to undergo radiation treatment prior to surgery but that will be a committee decision, I expect. Coincidently, he will be attending a cancer conference at UCLA tomorrow and he is going to present my case.

The good news is that it hasn't spread to any other organs and the spots on my lungs are not cancerous.

Oncologist next Wednesday. He's only in the office on Wednesdays.

After all the tests, I expect them now to DO SOMETHING.

--Tom
PopTom,

Good new's. :thumb:

Remember we are going on that bike ride together very soon. I should order my new Harley over here in the next week or so, and have it delivered in the states, to wait for me to pick it up.

So get the LBG's ready to ride with us.

You have all of us over here praying for you, and some more will probally join us on the ride.
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hey pops, it sounds like you and your doctor are ready to whip this thing's a$$ :thumb:

be praying for ya bud, and best of luck :)
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Great news about your lungs, wish you the best of luck. I know for sure your in great hands with anyone associated with UCLA. :thumb:
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Best of luck tom! I've always wanted to go to SoCal... you can show me around somday... :p
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poptom wrote:Well, I've had another CT scan, a PET scan, and ultrasound, and I saw my surgeon today. He thinks it would be best to undergo radiation treatment prior to surgery but that will be a committee decision, I expect. Coincidently, he will be attending a cancer conference at UCLA tomorrow and he is going to present my case.

The good news is that it hasn't spread to any other organs and the spots on my lungs are not cancerous.

Oncologist next Wednesday. He's only in the office on Wednesdays.

After all the tests, I expect them now to DO SOMETHING.

--Tom

Good report poptom! Now let them get in there and whip this critter. With most of the cards now showing...your team will know exactly how aggressively to fight and with what. The wait is maddening...I do know...but it should'nt be too long now!!! Hang in there! :p
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Ken wrote: :confused: OK, MsTynker, you have my curiosity... Are you insinuating that your treatments increased your penile size? :confused: :eek: :D

:rotfl: No..you goof!...but I think there is a great possibility that it brought more of a penile draw!! :rotfl:
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MissTynker2 wrote: :rotfl: No..you goof!...but I think there is a great possibility that it brought more of a penile draw!! :rotfl:

:rotfl: :rotfl:

By the way Tom. I have been Praying for you and will Continue to do so. :D
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I started radiation and chemo today, five days a week for five weeks.

The radiation is done with a linear accelerator at UCLA. Only takes a few minutes. Last week they had me on a simulator where they tatooed some reference points on my back and set up the scanning program.

Chemo is at a nearby office that is set up to handle about a dozen patients at a time. Today I was the only one there. About 45 minutes. I get Fluorouracil and Leukovorin by injection. I have an IV taped to my arm so they won't have to stick me each day.

Both places have free parking for motorcycles so that's how I'll be doing this shuttle. Saves me 14 bucks a day.

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BaghDaddy wrote:PopTom,

Remember we are going on that bike ride together very soon. I should order my new Harley over here in the next week or so, and have it delivered in the states, to wait for me to pick it up.

So get the LBG's ready to ride with us.
BaghDaddy. Come on by when you get your bike and we can take a ride up to the Rock Store for a beer and a sandwich. It's about a thirty mile ride through the canyons from here.

http://www.rock-store.com/rockstorelinks.html

http://www.rock-store.com/

I'll supply the ladies.

:) Tom
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